Where deep thought meets belly laughs, Andreas Koumi on cake and comedy on the menu in Hampden Square

A group of people sitting around a long table having a discussion — In depth discussion at Barnet’s Philosophy Café

Laughter echoed louder than the coffee machine at the second Philosophy Café, held at Paris-Brest Patisserie in Hampden Square, Southgate last month.

Titled “What’s left to laugh about?”, the event was expertly facilitated by humour-specialists Hephzi and Brian Kaplan, from London Art Therapy Centre. They opened by explaining how laughter is good for mind, body and soul — and how humour, when used affectionately, can be a powerful tool for healing and connection.

Around 20 local residents of different ages and backgrounds attended. Splitting into two groups for fuller participation, they wrestled with conversation starters such as: “Against the assault of laughter, nothing can stand,” “Life is far too important a thing ever to talk seriously about it,” and “Comedy is simply a funny way of being serious.”

Lively debate ensued, with plenty of punchlines thrown in for good measure. Between the mirth and merriment, serious insights emerged, and participants offered passionate feedback about the need for more opportunities to come together in such a unique way.

“The Philosophy Café is thriving, attracting a diverse crowd and filling a hunger for meaningful connections. I have a real passion for bringing people together, blending perspectives like colours on a palette, to create something new and vibrant. We are at a time in society where speaking our truth feels unsafe, but our events provide a safe, non-judgemental and stimulating space,” enthused organiser, Mirella Issaias.

Sadly, an application to the National Lottery to fund gatherings such as this – as part of the Mayor of London’s Community Weekend 2025 – was unsuccessful. Evidently, encouraging people to think more (rather than just party more) wasn’t deemed a priority. Still, you’ve got to laugh: a challenge participants embraced with gusto on the night.

Joking apart, the next Philosophy Café is planned for November. Thanks to Barnet Post for helping to promote this venture.

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